Do you feel like you are in love? How does one know if its love or pure lust? Both feel good…obviously one engages just the physical..while the other could be a feeling of deep caring or respect on its own or maybe your feelings encapsulate both. The desire to be in the other’s presence often is exhilarating and scary often distracting to someone trying to maintain a daily routine without playing over and over the last times spent together. The period of daydreaming about ones lover usually is in the “honeymoon” stage of a new relationship. How long does that butterfly feeling last? Can you maintain that kind of intensity for the long haul? we all love and long to be immersed in that world blocking out the daily grind we all endure.
Is this escape healthy? It can be if it involves a steady growing of closeness, not only in the sex department, but also in the enjoyment of time spent together in ways that don’t involve sex. If one can successfully combine both as in a great recipe which includes; laughing, conversation and productive meaningful moments that will be a bond. Sexual bonding is important if one studies the hormones that are exchanged during a long delicious kiss. Want to keep the fire? Keep kissing!!